I read an article on Boundless that talks about questions you might want to ask yourself in thinking about a person of interest to you. These questions include :
Spiritual
- Will he be the spiritual leader of your home?
- When you share with him your deepest spiritual thoughts, does he relate?
- Do his life and conversation reveal that he is truly connected with the Savior?
- Do his goals in life show that he wants to please the Lord above all?
- Are his goals in life compatible with yours?
Emotional
- How does he handle anger?
- (Added by me) Does he demonstrate emotional stability?
Mental
- Do you respect him intellectually?
Financial
- Does he have a gambling addiction?
- Does he have a spending addiction?
- How does he handle finances (budgeting, what he spends money on, tithing)?
- Is he a diligent, dependable worker?
- Does he make enough money to support you and future children?
- Does he expect you to work outside the home, or does he expect you to stay home with the kids?
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